Literature Dips: Reflective Reading for Self-Discovery

Literature Dips: Reflective Reading for Self-Discovery

I have no set time or place for choosing to do a dip; it happens in those in-between spaces, between ideas, projects, phases of the day, when I feel most malleable and unfocused. I imagine myself as Sissy Hankshaw from Even Cowgirls Get the Blues, on a dusty road with...

Conversations with Books: Syntopical Reading for Advanced Readers

Conversations with Books: Syntopical Reading for Advanced Readers

With infinite questions about everything in existence, including oneself, desiring the truth about things often presents as a voracious hunger. The ability to see meaning as a transmutable, flowing, contrived, and configured thing can lead a person to submerge...

Life is My Personal Curriculum

Life is My Personal Curriculum

Frigid, skeletal fingers grasp my ankles one bony phalange at a time. I startle, but it’s only the autumn breeze reminding me Halloween will soon be here. Sitting at my desk, I realize I’ve forgotten my cozy socks by the bedside, but the cold, ironically, makes me...

How Mindfulness Fueled My Early Adventures in Presence

How Mindfulness Fueled My Early Adventures in Presence

From Newsletters Past: Where My Mindfulness Journey Began   This message was originally shared with subscribers of my "mindful productivity and thinking tools" newsletter (EllaBirt.com 2014-2020). It offers a glimpse into my transformative journey traveling in a...

Synchronicity, Symbolism, and Ships: My Path to Self-Discovery

Synchronicity, Symbolism, and Ships: My Path to Self-Discovery

I didn’t know when I was laying on the green, orange, and brown shag carpet in my foster home that the painting of ships I loved pondering would shape my life in such a meaningful way. It was to become a powerful reoccurrence of synchronicity. Several ships in a...

3 Experiments in Cultivating Presence Over Perfection

3 Experiments in Cultivating Presence Over Perfection

In the home I grew up in the phrase, "If you're so smart, then why did you make a mistake," was more common than "I love you." I tried to stay perfectly clean when sent to school in all white. My grades never fell below A plus. Pleasing people was my full-time job,...